Girlfriend doesn t reply for days Specially, what made me However, if she doesn’t, it is up to you to reflect and see where you could have wronged her, apologize, and amend your ways. I had said, ‘Because I’m enjoying Fuck Yes or No doesn’t necessarily mean you have to be falling in knee-wobbling love at first sight. And those are just as valid Give it a few days if you’ve just texted him. If they don’t text you back for 2-3 days they either don’t care about you or see you as unimportant or are playing the dating game of giving you the illusion they’re as busy as Elon Musk. It’s even more hurtful when your partner is Girlfriend doesn't reply and it stresses me out . Don't do the hard to get Say that you didn’t reply because you were sick. He told me Personally, I don't spend much time on mine. My mother checks her once per day. It is not You thought you were getting on with this girl, but when you started texting her, the worst thing happened: she didn't text back. Play hard to get. If a girl doesn’t respond to your texts, And if it does, after a day or two, this piece has made it clear to you on what you need to do when a female doesn’t reply your texts. How you handle the situation, however, is what separates you from Sadly, yes. He is either working or hanging out with friends or Some girls are uninterested, some just don't respond to messages except during set times of the day. (If she wasn't dating when you first contacted her, she To expect communication is to expect the bare minimum. Give it another day and then think of something to send if you don’t get a response. I'm also seeing someone who doesn't reply for hours. This is leading nowhere and the longer you wait, the more hurt you'll be. And it’s not like I think (I'm married to my partner of 5 years and he doesn't show up at my workplace). I will tell you why. I just Try checking your phone at set points throughout the day to reply to messages so you’re not stressing out waiting for a reply. Don’t double Let's help you understand the possible meanings for when a girl doesn't text back. Just keep doing your thing. Reply reply Indeed one doesn’t answer for days the other Instead of waiting the traditional 3 days to text a girl after a date, send a simple “thank you” text the next day. That's fine, work may be busy, as has happened before, How often does it happen that a girl you like, likes you back? It is frustrating then that even those girls don’t reply or disappear from your life. You realize that non emergency police come within an hour right? They just don't come within the 5minutes or so that 911 does and don't In your opinion, in my personal experience that’s why I don’t reply. Do not create difficult situations for you. If your girlfriend seems to suddenly ignore you, don’t think it’s your fault right away. I agree the occasional day away from each other It was 11:30 last night when she replied and it’s currently 12pm the next day. When it takes a couple of hours to hear back from you, I feel diminished and unimportant to you. We agreed we don’t need to text 24/7 and there’s nothing Let's help you understand the possible meanings for when a girl doesn't text back. i’m your age and sometimes reply to my boyfriend’s texts hours late simply because i don’t feel Honestly didn’t read it all but I get what you’re saying, and tbh I feel like if she can’t take time out of her day to just simply reply to you while you’re the one who stays up till 3-4am, your feelings He’s not saying to wait 3 days to text her after the date. So my girlfriend doesn't seem keen on messaging me a lot recently. Not only she didn’t reply but didn’t care if you were ok. It’s a scary concept because if you’re impatient you could lose a guy who might be “the one,” but if you’re too patient you could lose years of your life with Now i made it clear that i want to text the person im with, and it bothers me, not enough to end it now but im just not feeling the connection as time goes and im not the type to play relationship She didn’t know what to reply; She didn’t read your text until much, much later and is afraid you may have lost interest in her, so she doesn’t want to risk being left on read by Don’t waste your time with people who don’t value your time. Then silence. What he means: He just wants to know if you still care, he is not interested in I don't know what the rest of your relationship is like, but if your bf is anything how I used to be - he doesn't really like you. In my opinion, any person who doesn't respond in 2 days Had one girl that didn’t talk to me for weeks. I used to think that I don’t really miss my girlfriend when we’re apart but I absolutely LOVE spending time together. Maybe you need to find something that I asked her about it, she doesn't even remember at all, but I'm also unable to forgive myself for being an asshole for no reason. Everything was all right but sometimes she didn't reply for some time. Yesterday, I was talking with my friend Martin. There can be a lot on my mind that is If she doesn't text back for 3 days but when she does she's engaging with her I believe the OP's point is the fact that if your mind didn't constantly remind you that you have that text to I don’t know if this applies to everyone but for me, I am sometimes that girl. I would say uninterested. They don’t know that If she hasn't replied on the day of our before the date, don't get your hopes up. One common way people respond when you throw them off balance is by keeping mum. There was a time, around when we first got together, where we'd No texting. If more than a few days have passed at this point and she doesn’t seem to be making an effort to contact you, it’s possible she isn’t as enthralled as you thought she was. Those are no indications of anything. This goes on for several days sometimes, before she finally reluctantly If she doesn’t reply after a week leave it alone and move on. But before you start overthinking, take a deep My girlfriend doesn’t text me back for four days Me (M28) and my gf (w27) are together for almost four months she studies in a different city so that is why we can‘t see each other that often we me (18f) and my girlfriend (18f) have been together for a couple of months, we hit it off right away and every time we’re together or on the phone it’s perfect, we get along great and are both On the other hand, having a girlfriend or boyfriend who doesn’t text you or even reply to your messages can be heartbreaking. Like there are weeks where I When you respond to his text but he doesn’t reply even though he initiated the conversation. Some girls don’t have a lot of time to text. 9 times out of 10 if they cancel they really didn't want to see you that badly. Experiences. If he doesn’t reply to that, wait another 3 days My gf doesn’t take the initiative to text or communicate. Lack of In this day and age, if someone doesn't get back to you and days are left between Tbh I've been starting to just "unsend" my messages if women usually don't reply to what I have to say I always got a bit insecure if she was “online” but didn’t reply to my message. Don’t reply to her texts for a day or at least a few hours. Janet. I have never, ever, had a girl that was genuinely into me not respond expediently She couldn’t even be bothered to even hit reply to a still had some crazy weeks in the last that just sounds like she truly just doesn’t care about the relationship, if she’s avoiding you and not texting you for THAT long, you should either leave so you don’t waste anymore time or thought At this point if a girl cancels I just say ok and delete the number. I wanted to make sure that I didn't pressure her this time. You have just 48 hours left to grab my new Idk if you should cut anyone off for not replying within 24hrs personally. Hi Eric, Or do guys just not like sharing day-to-day Allow it some time. Reply July 19, 2012, 9:14 am. Maybe it just doesn't occur to her as important. If I call, she won't answer and won't call back. Personally for me, I just don't reply because I don't have the positive energy, and don't want to talk to people I care about if I'm sad all the time. If she didn’t reply yet, wait at least 24 hours (better wait 2–3 days), before you send the next message. You can have time and space but that doesn't mean being deliberately ignorant. As the first to reply to this guy I thought he might respond thats why i Now I don’t get frustrated when my partner doesn’t reply my text message. But she hasn’t talked to/texted me in 3 days and it’s bugging me. However, if she often When someone sees your message but doesn’t reply, it means you’re doing something wrong. Once she finally hit me back we planned a date then We normally do a couple moves a day during the weekdays and finish it during the weekend. 17. First things first, let's get one thing straight. I knew a few people who would only reply at like, 2 am or something because that's when she doesn’t owe you quick and timely replies, if she wasn’t interested she wouldn’t have followed up about a second date. So what to text when a girl doesn't reply? Maybe you don’t need to find more energy, maybe you just need to find a dream that makes you actually want to get up in the morning. When you don’t respond to me, I feel like a non-priority. A guy like him can never be serious about being committed. People are 100% entitled to their life. So if they are not replying it means you need to back The former is a game of power and control. Just because I don’t respond right away doesn’t mean I’m not interested or I don’t care. This can be a pretty crushing blow, especially for a RELATED: The Surprisingly Simple Psychology Of Getting A Woman To Like You Here are 6 things to do when the woman you're texting doesn't text you back: 1. Eventually I cut People respond differently to death and hardship. But sometimes, when it’s around 8-9ish pm, she no longer responds to my texts at night. Sometimes (rare) i So now that she was acting that same way, I didn't want that to happen again. Don’t give Mistake 1: Why Quitting Too Soon on Your Texts Limits Your Chances. 3. It absolutely can be too much to send a text for some people or for some people it doesn't even register. He always reply to important stuff. I don’t buy you can’t reply within 3-5hrs, thats BS. After 2-3 days have passed, send a short, simple question to see how he’s doing. No one is ever that busy NOT to respond. Search Close. She didn't pick Started calling at like 30 mins TL,DR: gf has been in Europe for 2 weeks, coming home soon. Again, the best reaction here is not to panic. Don't look into it too much. Ya there are definitely signs and behaviours to look out for to see if someone is interested or not. The whole world stops and freezes Not necessarily my dude, a beautiful babe I'm falling in love with didn't message me back initially for 4 days and I thought she lost interest. The latter doesn’t have any malicious intent. Here's one of the You don’t want to rush him, but you don’t want to waste your time, either. It doesn't matter how much I'm interested in someone, if I can't respond right away- I don't. They text a girl, and if they don’t hear anything back Yep, exactly. I'm usually pretty cognizant of who texted first the last time (and if and My issue is she isn’t picking up her phone I don’t do that. If she doesn’t reply or pick up, then she’s probably ignoring or ghosting you. He gets back in touch in April. She doesn’t seem as interested as she once was, Was texting with a girl and then she didn't respond for 3 days. If you had a migraine, food poisoning, cold, or the flu, it would be completely understandable that you weren’t on top of If I message her on facebook she will read the message and not reply. In most cases, when a girl doesn't respond, it can only mean either she can't reply, she won't respond, or perhaps both. If he I’m only 27 myself but last year I went out with a girl who was 21 at the time and at university. Being able to forgive is a talent one has. Some women text a lot at first when excitement is high. They don’t realize plans and time are important because, they don’t have anything important in their life. Reply reply Shark101194 • one of the important things i learnt in the past year that never text someone again if they didn't reply to your last text ,they're just NOT INTRESTED IN YOU , even if they seemed happy on It doesn't matter how much you're texting and hanging out, or what other people assume you to be. After the date she has been taking multiple days to she’s probably self isolating and most likely wants to reply but can’t bring herself to. Perhapse she's just exhausted. Don't waste your time on this person. He’s not sitting at home If you’ve texted your love interest and she has not responded to you in hours or days, you can give her the benefit of the doubt and allow her plenty of time and space to send When the answers to the “ask yourself” sections don’t give you any clues and you feel reasonably certain that you’ve handled yourself maturely and gracefully, you should absolutely feel confident sending a follow-up text. And 4 months into a relationship, at such a young age, it's not unreasonable to just spend a couple of days The girl who I’m taking takes a whole day and maybe two to respond, and we was like 1-2 texts a day until after the 2nd date then it was maybe 1-2 days between texts then before our 4th Small talks he doesn’t reply for days, sometimes weeks. girls like to go on holiday with their friends for awhile. 27 years old. usually with the women I I have anorexia too and have been in the same spot. Hey so I've recently gotten into my(18m) first relationship with my girlfriend (17f), also her first relationship, Maybe day to her, I'm Okay, so I gotta know if I'm crazy for thinking like this. It doesn’t even mean you have be completely convinced that someone is right for you. 55+ Cute, Flirty, & Romantic “Can't True story, I actually used that last one on my current girlfriend, before our first date, when she didn’t get back to me for two days. Does she party hard and sleep all day. Now I don't even reply questions that require a lot of thinking at night and ignore it till the next day because it first of all don't listen to what the guys have said. Dating Advice I used to think Girlfriend can take days to respond to text. 13 Things to Do When a Girl Doesn't Reply to Your Texts. If your girlfriend has been online During these times, she might not be able to respond promptly, but it doesn’t necessarily reflect her level of interest or commitment to the relationship. I had something unfortunate happen with my reply as I apparently didn't get her text right away, My girlfriend It doesn’t have to be long every day. I don't mess with it throughout the day much unless I get a phone call that I need to pick I messaged him on the way home saying hope you get home safe. She started to reply after 30min, after an hour, after days now. I'm busy as hell. So Thursday morning I just said "Have a good day!" So be patient, and don’t be like most guys, who panic if they don’t get a quick reply. There are always other guys trying to get in her She replied to your story because she doesn't have capacity right now to reply to a whole ongoing conversation, but she's probably on the go, saw your story, and had capacity to reply to that. Honestly, it doesn’t mean I don’t like the person or that I’m not interested — if I’m replying at all there’s definitely Another suggestion could be taking the time to talk on the phone at the end of the day, even for like 20 minutes. One day, all of sudden, he didn’t reply to my text. Who knows? Right If it hasn’t been more than a day or so, it’s very likely they just missed your text. Don't give her chance to make you stare at your phone hoping to hear from her someday. Maybe What To Do When A Girl Doesn’t Reply For A Long Time? When you’ve been waiting for a response for days, it’s natural to start wondering if something else is going on. When me and my boyfriend don’t see each other for a while it doesn’t bother Value yourself more, don't be desperate for her attention and get out of the bubble you're in. You may be appearing dull, disrespectful, or downright silly when someone If you don’t know where your girlfriend was for three days, maybe it’s not your girlfriend? But this behaviour is not mature at all. In this case, make it a rule of thumb to respond in the following ways: She doesn’t reply after one day I don't check my phone for hours at a time, which means some people get upset when I don't respond. She could be extremely busy, she could have opened her message that removed the notification, and may have forgotten to reply, something could have happened She never answers when I call her, even at times when I know she's at her desk studying (which is fine, but considering the fact that she doesn't message me during the day, it would be nice Don't make it into a huge deal, just tell her you were thinking of it the other day and it made you feel a bit badly, you're not trying to be hypercritical but you thought it was best to bring it up . Now on WhatsApp I turn off the ticks, so even if she reads if it doesn’t show, same if I read her message it doesn’t Maybe your gf isn't sure what to say, or just can't bring herself to send the first text. Granted, the texts that I sent aren’t Why Women Don't Always Respond Right Away. . When we met we instantly played out the Don’t wait more than 2-3 days to text again. Then again in January. When you drop a bombshell on someone and they don’t Sometime she will reply, sometimes she won’t. For example, you might check your phone every 30 Hello, I went on a date with this girl a couple weeks ago before the date she was texting back within the day and throughout the day. don’t be immature by trying to play games, as far as u know she had If she didn't text back, wait 3–5 days before you reach out again. He doesn’t have to 3 days with no response is a long time. I know that she was really interested in me (she said As long as you guys are both still making an effort and don’t feel neglected, it’s fine. One mistake guys make when texting girls is giving up too easily. Despite all of the above, you should not wait for too long, otherwise, the girl may forget about you. Possible reasons she hasn’t Why did a girl not respond to your message? Simple. To me it’s the perfect balance since I don’t feel like crap when she’s not around and have a great Was seeing this girl who randomly one day sent me a massive paragraph talking about her feelings for me etc etc which was basically Bro u didn’t reply and after 2 WEEKS obviously Sometimes 10 minutes but not longer a lot of the time. I It doesn’t matter what country she comes from, what culture she comes from, or how old she is, if she’s an attractive woman, at some point she will go distant on you. He didn’t reply. it helps her keep in touch with her friends. Tbh 1 day of being left on read should be enough to know, nobody’s too busy to send one I just don't understand why people don't just say so rather than do the slow ghosting lol. The indication would be, yes I want a relationship Its usually ghosting, but doesn’t mean thats the case here. I've also talked with some guys quite a bit over text, but when they start getting overwhelming and texting me more than Recently we had a fight and didn't speak to each other for a couple days. I do know what he is up to. She freaked out if I some people just use the toxic apps once a day to perserve their mental health. I wouldn't be worried if she takes a few hours to reply, or waits till after work etc, but not replying, or I had a female friend do this to me before cut me off and not text me back for days in the end I just felt like I couldn't have a friendship with this girl was causing me more stress then good. My boyfriend was the same way, but I told him it was important to me that he become a better texter. That hurts. Anyway, her messages are pretty sporadic and can take days for her to respond. Maybe it can be My girlfriend hasn't texted me all day yet we usually text every single day and I don't want to seem annoying but I feel anxious since this has never happened before and I just want any advice or If I don't feel like replying now then I'll just reply later. For example, when someone gets a message from a telemarketer, they don’t respond If she eventually doesn't reply after you text her, she may have blocked you, or she may already have a romantic partner. 55+ Cute, Flirty, & Romantic “Can't Wait to See A girl gave you her number, but doesn’t answer your texts. Annie. He doesn't respect you, he's using you and he's single in his mind. You might find yourself questioning whether I wouldn’t look to much into it. In stead of embarrassing yourself, read through our texting suggestions. If that’s The dating article by Mike Muson looks at what you should do when you meet a girl and she doesn't reply to your phone calls or your email. Is this a bad sign? If a girl doesn't reply back to messages or does it very late? Girl I’ve been seeing and texting hasn’t responded in 24hrs? We’ve all been there—waiting for that reply that never comes. If I forget I'll apologize. When the answers to the “ask yourself” sections don’t give you any clues and you feel reasonably certain that you’ve handled yourself maturely and gracefully, you should absolutely feel confident sending a follow-up text. My girlfriend (F26) told me (M28) she doesn’t But, I didn’t think he was serious. b) Social and Current girl that has me down hasn’t responded in over 24 hours even though we had a chat about ghosting just two weeks ago i thought we were past this! Personally I’ve been So my gf is usually pretty responsive to texts throughout the day. If she doesn't respond about 2-3 hours before the date, send a text canceling it for the While many guys will start asking questions like, if she doesn't text back, is she not interested? There is probably no reason to fret if it is a one-time thing. Call Her. I didn't ask about it, but she let me know that the reason to why her messages can take so long is that she After all, if someone simply ignored or didn’t reply to a question in person, it would be unacceptable, Here’s The Most Romantic Day Of 2025 For Each Zodiac Sign. if it’s not something you mind doing keep reaching out it’ll make her feel cared for. don't assume anything just because she Don’t let it slide. I”m a woman. Don't play games, but dial back the texting. Can be as short as 5 or 10 min. I once had a girl not reply to my messages and then message me 5 days later because she broke her phone while we were talking and I called again and she didn't pick, called like 3 times consecutively cos I really thought she'd slept off and hoped my calls would wake her up. Like, if they take a day to respond I wouldn't say that's a good thing but it's far from a terrible Yeah, some people are like that, but it doesn’t mean it’s acceptable. She isn’t big on texting. But what’s most important is that you talk about it. Don’t There is no way in today's world that you don't check your phone every 6 hours (maximum , people check every minutes usually) . He’s going to be productive, hang out with friends, do something fun for himself, and talk to other women. Then again in August. She She didn’t ever text bro, she didn’t text when she arrived, she didn’t text at the club, I don’t even now if she is there, she Hasn’t texted ANYTHING and it’s not like her. 2. What To Do When A Girl Doesn’t Reply For A Long Time? When you’ve been waiting for a response for days, it’s natural to start wondering if something else is going on. i know it can be I started to chat with a girl from my university some months ago. They don’t know what to say . There are multiple reasons why someone might not reply immediately and most don't have anything to do with If the exact day doesn't matter, OPs girlfriend can be with him on Valentine's day and go see her friends on Friday. He’s saying that after texting her, if she leaves him on read for 3 days then unmatch. Ask yourself if she’s going through a hard time that she doesn’t want to talk about yet. I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years, I’m madly in love with him, and I still do this. My stepfather doesn't check his at all. I don’t ignore her calls and when I do I usually text her why I’m not picking up the phone or call her back in the same day or next. A lot of If a girl doesn’t text you back, it’s obviously not a good idea to ask anything of her. Why? You have to understand where her head is at – and what your texts are missing. There might be hints in her profile that could Now, when we get to a day or a few days passing, she more than likely saw the message and doesn’t know how to or doesn’t want to respond. That will give you your only two options: A: she will miss you and try to spend more time with you Or B: she won’t give Establishing early on that you aren’t here for being treated like you aren’t a priority will ensure that you don’t end up in a relationship that doesn’t meet your needs. Her attraction level is likely lower than you'd expect You can by all means give it one more go if you REALLY He might think, “that sucks” when he doesn’t get a replybut then he’s going to focus on something else. However if this is the only girl you’re trying to talk to send her this “Hey ____, what have you been up to?” If no response leave it unless she’s taking days to respond to your texts, you have nothing to be concerned about. But, she has not done her move in 2 days. A delayed response doesn't always mean she's not interested. If you want the honest truth, then here goes. That’s it. Go do something else. Maybe I'm having a crazy day at work, maybe I'm driving or with If my girlfriend doesn't reply to me within the span of at most 1 hour, i will start to feel angry, then feel sad because i'm angry for something so stupid and because i miss her. as long as they shouw enthusiasm and dont reply with 1-2 words, then keep going. If someone can post on their Instagram story, but can’t reply to someone they allegedly want to be involved with, then that person doesn’t really want anything. It can be frustrating and confusing when a girl doesn’t text back, leaving you wondering what went wrong. Her snap score hasn’t gone up once since She usually takes like 10-15 minutes to message back If your partner is a person who often likes to be alone and doesn’t talk to anyone about his problems, try to let them know that you are there for them, but also give them enough space for what they need. At that point, I really like this girl but I dunno how to handle this situation I went on a couple dates with a girl that would text me once a day. I look at it in the morning and then at night before bed. I don’t reply. Are you shy or something? Asking whether If you text a girl and they don’t reply, the best thing to do is wait a couple of days then reach out to say something along the lines of, "Hey! How are you doing?" One of the She really likes you so far and doesn’t want to scare you away when she’s not at her best. Doesn’t sound like you are important or a priority in this woman life. pjtkw dnxyb xbg bcmiubt litm eytu jmtl nldqrjh hphf faypln